How to Know When It’s Time for Extra Help With an Aging Parent

Caring for an aging parent often starts with small acts of help. Picking up groceries. Driving to appointments. Checking in more often. But over time, you may find yourself wondering: Is this more than I can handle alone?

That question comes up for many families, and noticing the signs early can prevent burnout, stress, and safety issues.

Here are some common indicators that it may be time to consider extra support.

1. Daily Tasks Are Becoming Harder

If your parent is struggling with everyday activities, it may be a sign they need assistance:

Difficulty bathing, dressing, or preparing meals
Forgetting medications or taking them incorrectly
Trouble keeping up with housekeeping or laundry

These challenges can increase the risk of falls, illness, or injury if left unaddressed.

2. You’re Feeling Constantly Overwhelmed

Caregiving can quietly take over your life. If you feel:

Exhausted even after rest
Anxious about your parent’s safety
Guilty when you are not there

You are not failing. These are signs you may need support, not signs of weakness.

3. Safety Concerns Are Increasing

Changes in mobility or memory can make the home less safe:

Frequent falls or near-falls
Leaving the stove on or doors unlocked
Wandering or confusion

In-home care can provide supervision and assistance to help reduce risks.

4. Your Relationship Is Changing

When caregiving becomes constant, the parent-child relationship can shift.

You may feel more like a manager than a son or daughter.
Your parent may feel frustrated or embarrassed.

Extra help allows you to step back into your role as family, not just caregiver.

5. You’re Balancing Too Much

Many caregivers are also managing careers, children, and their own health. When responsibilities pile up, something often gives.

Professional caregivers can help with daily tasks, companionship, and routines so you do not have to do everything yourself.

Knowing When to Ask for Help

Getting help does not mean giving up control. It means making a thoughtful choice to support your parent and yourself.

CareBuilders at Home offers compassionate, personalized in-home care that adapts as needs change. We work with families to create care plans that feel supportive, not overwhelming.

👉 Call today to talk with a real person about your situation and learn what kind of help might make life easier.